Well, it's a little bit of time away.
First time I see this problem (were invited to answer) feel a little confused, first, the building Lord asked this question, the definition of "foreigner" is "non-chinese" or "nationality different from himself the definition of '?
Second, because I have described my experience with Chinese men (in previous accounts)
What is the feeling of a foreign girl who has a Chinese boyfriend? -tan's answer.
I also describe the characteristics of my family and my views on china-uk exchanges.
How to fall in love with europeans and americans? -tan's answer.
So is it a little boring for the audience to answer this question?
But after all, I was invited to say more.
I also want to emphasize a little bit about the individual.
1. Classic Scorpio, romantic, emotional,
2. Linguists (German, French and Chinese) - 15 years old start at least three months each year in foreign countries, there has always been the idea of going abroad, in a foreign country for a year or two and return home for a period of time, he ran to the abroad. Although hope to be able to settle down, but still a student at present, the home of the future has been uncertain (hope to be able to stay in China), so difficult to have stable relationship, tried to exotic love but think a lot of boys can't stand such exchanges.
Because of these two things I have been with people in Britain, China, South Korea and Germany.
Although the British boyfriend longest (2.5 years, is also my first love) but because I have been to China's college idea he can't stand, also don't want to try the exotic love, so we have to tell me the best girlfriends and ran away.
I think the difference between foreigners and their country is:
1. There will be more communication barriers, more misunderstandings and little things to think about.
2. The two sides are generally more tolerant and feel that everything is fresh and can expand their thinking and vision.
3. It is more difficult to judge whether this person is suitable for you or not. Sometimes, you think it is a cultural difference.
4. People who don't speak their mother tongue are more likely to find that their behavior changes. (this is also a lot of psychology and linguistics experts describe Language - people become when their behavior and sex, and ways of thinking, also can become: a Study into behaviour of Latin American Women who speak both Native Language and English/Study into conducting Business negotiations in Native vs Foreign Language). Of course, many people find with the object of the nationality will also have change, but according to my experience, is likely to change under the condition of the premises will be more obvious.
Because I like to learn and have a lot of curiosity, I think it is not surprising that people who are different from me are attractive. In fact, I think my parents knew I married less probability of the British, so has been didn't object to my associate with foreigners, then I find the Chinese elder sister younger brother object can said I have such a fate at home! Ha ha.
If there is something I didn't say clearly, maybe because I'm sorry, I can ask you privately.
If I say something to make everyone uncomfortable, please forgive me, I don't mind if I can teach you more!
The international student tan ramu.
那好吧，现在有点时间不在’占坑‘。我头次看这个问题（被邀请回答的）觉得有点困惑，第一，楼主问这个问题时，’外国人‘的定义是’非中国人‘还是’国籍与本人不同‘的定义？
第二，因为我描述过了自己与中国男士交往的经验 （在以前的账户上）
外国女生有（有过）中国男朋友的，感受是什么？ - 谭蔓茹的回答
也描述过我家庭比较特色的情况和我对中英交流的看法。
如何与欧美人谈恋爱？ - 谭蔓茹的回答
所以在回答这样的问题对于观众来说是不是有点腻？
但毕竟被邀请，我就多说点吧。
我也想强调一点个人的特殊情况。
1。经典天蝎座，浪漫主义强，靠感情，
2。语言学家（德语，法语，中文）-15岁就开始每年有起码三个月的时间在国外，一直有去国外的想法，在国外一两年又回国一段时间，又跑到国外。虽然希望能安定下来，但目前还是学生，未来的所在地一直不确定（希望能留在中国）, 因此比较难拥有稳定的关系，尝试过异国恋但是觉得很多男生受不了这样的交往。
因为这两点我与英国，中国，韩国，德国四个国家的人交往过。
虽然英国男朋友交往时间最长（2.5 年，也是我初恋）但因为我一直拥有上大学去中国的想法他受不了，也不愿意尝试异国恋，只好跟我当时最好的闺蜜跑走。
我觉得外国人与自己国家人区别就在于：
1。会有更多沟通障碍，更多误会， 小小的事情也得多考虑。
2。双方一般会更宽容，觉得什么都很新鲜，能扩展自己的思维方式和视界。
3。更难判断这个人对于你来说合不合适，好不好，有的时候自己认为是’文化差异‘其实就是人家的差点。
4。与不会说自己母语的人在一起更会发现自己的行为性格有所变化。（这也是很多心理学和语言学专家描述的-人语言变得时候自己的行为和性,还有思维方式，也会变：Study into behaviour of Latin American Women who speak both Native Language and English/ Study into conducting Business negotiations in Native vs Foreign Language). 当然很多人找到同国籍的对象时也会有变化，但是按照自己经验来说，有可能在前提的情况下变化会更明显。
因为我很喜欢学习而且很有好奇性，所以自己觉得与我有所不同的人很有吸引力也许不难怪。 其实我觉得我父母早就知道我嫁给英国人的概率比较少，所以一直也没有反对我与外国人交往，后来我姐姐弟弟找到了中国对象就能说我家里有这样的缘分！哈哈。
如果有什么我没说清楚，可能是因为不好意思，可以私信问我。
如果我说了什么让大家不舒服，请多原谅，可以多多指教我也不介意！
留学生谭蔓茹
